Our adventure draws to a close…

November 21st

I can’t believe that our Ethiopian adventure will be drawing to a close in a few hours’ time. Tutu, Caroline and I are all aboard our Ethiopian Airlines flight home to Heathrow with a suitcase full of memories. We have had an action-packed week with an eclectic range of experiences and are returning to the UK sleep-deprived but energised and happy.

We have been very blessed during this trip because our Ethiopian friends Tutu and Mulugeta have showed us around and given us a unique insight into what it means to be Ethiopian in 2010 (Ethiopia follows a different calendar and is 7 years behind us!). This was my third visit to Ethiopia, and with every visit I learn a little more about the culture here and grow more fond of this beautiful country and its proud people.

My overriding memory of this trip will be of the wonderful, dignified people I have met. Whatever their socio-economic group, ethnicity or religion, everyone has opened up their homes for us and shown us true Ethiopian hospitality.

One man who exemplifies this hospitality and oozes charisma is athlete and businessman Haile Gebrselassie, who has been a fantastic Ambassador for the Great Ethiopian Run. Yesterday all the international competitors and journalists were invited to his resort  YaYa Village in the hills surrounding Addis. We were hugely impressed by the warmth of his welcome and Haile’s genuine ease chatting to people from all walks of life – taking time to dance with each of the tables.

In a few hours’ time, life will return to normal. I will be doing the school run in Cookham again. I can’t wait to see my gorgeous three boys and our Cocker Spaniel Daisy. But wherever I go, the children at the Breakfast Club in Gende Tesfa will not be too far from my thoughts and I will continue trying to play my small part in helping to improve lives there.

Friends often ask me how I became an Ambassador for PFC Ethiopia and why I feel compelled to keep supporting Gende Tesfa, which translates from Amharic into English as “Village of Hope”. I am not sure I can articulate this in words or my put my finger on it. But when I visited the Breakfast Club and met the children and parents, I was deeply moved.  Connecting two very different villages – one in leafy Berkshire and the other in dusty Dire Dawa – has been a joy and a gift but I could not do it without the support of my family, friends and colleagues. Special thanks also to my husband Damian and my children Joshua and Jack.

One final thank you to Tutu and Nancy for adding their special magic to our trip. Also a a gigantic thank you to my friend – photographer Caroline Field– who has captured so many beautiful moments in a way i could never do. I couldn’t think of nicer “partners in crime” or travel buddies.

Just a reminder that if you would like to make donation to Gende Tesfa, however small, here is the link: http://uk.virginmoneygiving.com/charity-web/charity/displayCharityCampaignPage.action?charityCampaignUrl=tutusforchange

Please do share our blog with friends who might find it interesting. Thanks again. Until next time…

Mission Impossible

November 20th

Mission impossible achieved #thesegirlscan – “They believed they could, so they did.”

A couple of weeks ago, Tutu asked Caroline and I whether we would be able to help her with a very important mission. Tutu wanted us to help her take a wheelchair on the plane for her father, Melaku,  and then push him around the 10km Great Ethiopian Run course. Getting the wheelchair  to Ethiopia with all our other luggage was even more challenging than the running feat, but we did it in the end with a little help with our friend Derege from Ethiopian Airlines! Hoorah.

Melaku, who is in his 70s, has always wanted to do the Great Ethiopian Run but  has recently had a couple of strokes and couldn’t run it or walk it himself. Anyway, suffice it to say that Tutu’s dream was realised. What an amazing day!  Tutu, Caroline and I wore tutus and named ourselves “Tutus For Change”. Along with friends,  Nancy, Mikey and Joseph we joined 42,000 other athletes and fun runners and pushed Melaku around the streets of Addis.

The Great Ethiopian Run can best described as a carnival with everyone in a party mood. The course was undulating so it was tough at times but the wave of goodwill carried us around the course. Simply unforgettable…..

Whilst jogging around with a very good-natured crowd it was hard to believe that a month ago it was uncertain that the Great Ethiopian Run would take place because of the State of Emergency and political tensions. Quite a few international visitors cancelled their trip and there were only around 250 in total.  But today everyone put their differences behind them and simply just ran. There was a larger presence of police than normal in Addis today but apart from that, the race was very relaxed.

I think that I will leave the final word to Tutu’s Dad – as he crossed the finish-line in his wheelchair, he smiled and said: “today I have been reborn”….

 

It’s not every day you go to an Ethiopian wedding….

November 19th

So today Tutu invited us to an Ethiopian Orthodox family wedding. Wow! What an incredibly special experience it was – serene and reflective at the beginning of the celebrations and wild and colourful once the dancing had begun. Even a brief power-cut was not enough to dampen everyone’s spirits.

Tutu has eight brothers and sisters – not unusual in Ethiopia. Tutu’s Mum Asnakech had all her children between the age of 13 and 27 – she still looks absolutely amazing.

In what is indicative of Ethiopian generosity, Tutu’s parents also raised three other children from the  countryside  in the family home and looked after them until they were teenagers. One of those children was Haymanot – she lived with Tutu’s family from the age of 6 and returned to her parents for special occasions like Christmas and Easter.  Tutu says that Haymanot is like a sister to her,

There was a delicious spread of food at the wedding, including injera (Ethiopian pancakes), tibs (meat), a variety of vegetable dishes and also a raw minced meat dish (kitfo). What differentiated this wedding from a British one is that most people were drinking soft drinks not alcohol, and the exuberance of the guests came from dancing not alcohol.

The highlight of the afternoon was dancing with some priests from Haymanot’s home village. It was so much fun! They were all very wild dancers and had great senses of humour. Very impressive indeed. I certainly need to practice my shoulder-shaking moves for next time…

Tutus For Change

Midnight – November 19th

So there are just a few hours to go until the Great Ethiopian Run in Addis Ababa – the excitement is palpable and the bus is picking us up at 6am to take us to the start-line. There are going to be 42,000 runners in what Haile Gebrselassie described as one big carnival – we plan to dance after every kilometre! I don’t think we are going to get much sleep tonight. I interviewed Haile Gebrselassie yesterday and today we got to dance with him at the pasta party. What an extraordinary couple of days!

The Great Ethiopian Run will be broadcast live on Ethiopian TV, so do look out for our team, which is called “Tutus For Change” because we are running with Tutu Melaku wearing tutus and we are all trying change lives in Ethiopia as Ambassadors for Partners For Change Ethiopia. If you can, please make a donation, however small. Thank you!

http://uk.virginmoneygiving.com/charity-web/charity/displayCharityCampaignPage.action?charityCampaignUrl=tutusforchange

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The countdown to the Great Ethiopian Run begins….

November 18th

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What a difference a day makes! Yesterday we were in Eastern Ethiopia visiting Gende Tesfa, a community where nearly every family is affected by leprosy and poverty and today we attended the Great Ethiopian Run press conference in the opulent surroundings of the Hilton in Addis Ababa in the company of Haile Gebrselassie and lots of international visitors. It is a race I have always wanted to do, so I am thrilled to be here, especially as because of the State of Emergency in Ethiopia, we were unsure whether the race would go ahead until a couple of weeks ago, and some friends pulled out of coming to Addis.

There was a funny moment on the way to the press conference today. My friend Caroline and I were travelling in a minibus with a Spanish journalist who was working for AFP and two Kenyan athletes. We asked them who was going to the win the Great Ethiopian Run on Sunday and they both said “me”! They then revealed that they both had a PB of around 28 minutes for a 10km, which gives them godly status in my eyes! I should add that Caroline, Tutu and I will be joining the fun runners and indulging in the carnival atmosphere which the race is renowned for.

This evening I got to interview Ethiopian runner and icon Haile Gebrselassie, which was definitely one of the highlights of our trip if not my year!! I am fascinated not just by an athlete but a man who has achieved so much – 27 world records, two Olympic gold medals and four World Championships in 10,000 metre events and he has also just become President of the Ethiopian Athletics Federation. But Gebrselassie’s achievement don’t just end there – he is also a hugely successful businessman, he has four children and is an incredibly positive and helpful person. He even gave us a lift back to our hotel tonight.

I can’t wait until the race on Sunday. It is going to be great to experience a race in Ethiopia – hopefully we will carried around the course on a wave of euphoria as we pound the streets of Addis. This year’s race motto is: “Live to tell”.

Nothing unites people like sport and running…..

 

 

Introducing Gende Tesfa Women’s Group

November 17th

Another busy morning in Gende Tesfa. This morning we met the Women’s Business Group at the school, which JeCCDo overseas. There are currently fifteen women in the group and the charity has helped train them and has given them a loan so that they can start their own business. It costs around £100 to help each woman, and they run a variety of businesses, including selling injera, running a small shop, urban farming and hairdressing. Once their business is up and running, the women need to repay the loan within 2 years.

Caroline and I chatted to the women and found out more about their lives. They said that running their own business had transformed their lives and empowered them. One mother of three, Alfiya, who runs her own injera business, had just slept under a piece of corrugated iron with her family before getting help from JeCCDo. Alfiya says she can now look after her children properly because she has a house and a toilet of which she is immensely proud.

I presented each woman with a Maidenhead Business Girls’ t-shirt and they were absolutely thrilled. Thank you so much Amanda Ayres and Seema from Goyals for sponsoring this initiative. The women in Gende Tesfa would love to hear more about your businesses and link up with you in some way.

On November 26th, Cookham Running Club will have a Ethiopia-themed handicap run, where people can come dressed in yellow, green, red and blue. All funds raised will be donated to Gende Tesfa School. So today Caroline and went for a run with some of the children and staff from the school. It was great fun and judging from today, there might be some future Olympic athletes there!

Our last stop of the morning was to see a teenage boy called Matteus, who I met back in March 2015 when we went for a dusty 5km run with on the outskirts of Dire Dawa. It was a very memorable and serene run because Matteus is deaf and dumb. I went back to say hello with Matteus and to give him a small gift.

This afternoon we flew back to Addis Ababa from Dire Dawa, ready for the next part of our adventure.

Visiting the Breakfast Club

November 16th

It is very late here in Dire Dawa in Eastern Ethiopia, a city which tantalises the senses. My head is buzzing with thoughts about what has been an extraordinary day at Gende Tesfa School. I have felt a kaleidoscope of emotions. For 2 years, we have organised fundraising events in Cookham, and today I finally got to see how the money is improving the lives of more than 1000 children who attend the school. A real milestone in this very special UK- Ethiopia partnership.

Our day started with a visit to the Breakfast Club. The kids were tucking into a plate of potatoes and vegetables and sugary tea. Thanks to Cookham’s fundraising efforts, some of the most vulnerable children at the school have a good breakfast every day. For many of them, it is the only meal they will have. The Breakfast team staff also help the children with health and hygiene and talk to them about any issues which might be worrying them.

I found it profoundly moving to see the Breakfast Club. Before it existed, some of the most vulnerable children used to go through the entire school day without eating, and they sometimes passed out in the classroom. The headteacher Wendu Fekade said there are around 50 more vulnerable children at the school who are either orphans or come from extremely poor backgrounds, who would benefit tremendously from attending the Breakfast Club, but at present there is no funding for them. I felt the tears welling up in my eyes when I heard this.

Sister Tigist, who is one of the JeCCDo team, then showed us the new sports ground which Cookham has funded. Some of the older children were playing football. When I visited Gende Tesfa School back in March 2015, there was nowhere for the children to play sport, so this was also great to see.

My friend Caroline and I then delivered all the letters from Holy Trinity School in Cookham to the children in the different classes.  The kids were so excited but rather nervous about opening the envelopes. The teachers said that the younger children had never received a letter before. When the children saw the letters and pencils, their faces lit up.  We visited three classes, taught them some English, sang songs and wrote letters back to the children in Cookham.

In the afternoon, we were invited to a meeting at the school, but when we arrived mid-afternoon, the parents of the children from the Breakfast Club had organised a surprise celebratory coffee-ceremony for us. It was very humbling and overwhelming, particularly as they have nothing and struggle to feed and clothe their kids.

One of the fathers at the meeting explained that his wife had died and that he had three children and that the breakfast provided by the school was the only meal that he had each day. He worked as a labourer and earned the equivalent of £2 in Birr which only paid the rent.  The challenges faced by others in the room were very similar.  I asked why some of the parents were absent. Sister Tigist sighed and said: “Those children don’t have any parents. They are orphans but we help them.”

After several speeches, the coffee-ceremony began and we were presented with a big cake and two resplendent drias. There was so much joy in the room as the women danced, shouted and clapped to show their appreciation for all the fundraising in Cookham. It was a very special moment indeed.

Moving forward, JeCCDo hopes that the parents of the children at the Breakfast Club will take part in one of their special training programmes,  and start up their own businesses. .